Notice - what's happening?
Stop - what do I know for sure?
What are the facts?
Is this working?
What can I learn from being stuck?
What or who is missing? Who is not in the room?
What is in and what is out of my control?
Review - how do I feel, behave, think?
What emotions are in the room? Is there joy, tension, confusion, aggression, tiredness?
What does this remind me of?
Is this what I want?
How are people are participating? What levels of dissent, absence and engagement do I notice?
Decide - how do I want to play?
What is at stake for me?
What can I learn?
Is it worth it?
What is new, what hints to the unknown?
What am I afraid of?